About the book: 2020 / He doesn’t want to admit that he’s hurting you. It is normal for him to raise his voice, insult or use force. He doesn't care about your opinion. He won't stop until you stop this madness. The tips outlined here will help you recognize an abuser and equip you with the tools to defend yourself, physically or psychologically, from aggressive and controlling men. They will also allow you to correct your partner’s negative behavior if he is ready to change..