About the book: 2021 / This book describes the mechanisms of behavior of children and adults during a divorce, gives clear advice and recommendations on how act in a difficult situation. You will see what really lies behind the children's aggressiveness and ex's refusal to cooperate. You will find here recommendations on how to keep children calm, how to talk to them about difficult issues, how to properly support them, how to resist manipulation, and how to get out of the crisis yourself with minimal losses. A separate part of the book is devoted to the internal crisis of an adult who finds himself in this situation. The book will be useful to anyone who has experienced or is experiencing family breakdown, who wants to protect children from trauma, as well as family, child, and clinical psychologists.