About the book: 2016 / The book "To be Gur Gurovich" is entirely based on the author's materials collected and systematized based on the results of the work of Sergey and Dina Volsini with clients in over the past ten years. The book is based on their author’s course “Secrets of Mastery” for future consultants. The book describes the mutual influence of the client and the consultant, while focusing on how a consultant should behave. Unlike other books on this topic, which talk about “how to advise a client even better,” this book is aimed at the personality of the consultant and explains why, for successful work, it is important for a consultant to understand himself, not the client, first of all. The book answers the eternal question, why a psychologist helps others and cannot help himself, and teaches how not to be a shoemaker without boots. The book is dedicated to those who are engaged in consulting, psychologists, coaches, trainers, and those who are just about to plunge into this profession . The book will also be of interest to anyone who is engaged in “soul-searching”, trying to understand the connection between child-parent relationships, is interested in psychology, or has consulted a psychologist.