About the book: 2009 / As befits a handbook, the book describes many phenomena that add up to a bizarre picture of the world. How to identify a Real Artist and distinguish, for example, a bass player from a drummer off stage (and even in the dark)? How to communicate with writers and photographers without harming your psyche? How to relate to “female illusions” - all kinds of delusions that decorate (or complicate) a woman’s life from youth to old age? The “Handbook for Care and Return” includes chapters from the book “Smart as a Flower” and completely new sections.