About the book: 2017 / All parents should read this book. And for those who are concerned about slight misunderstandings, and for those who were already desperate to find a common language with children. In it we have collected two books in one: “Secret support: attachment in a child’s life” and “If it’s difficult with a child” - books that can save you and your child from tons of psychological waste paper. Often, as adults, we forget that there is no time and were children themselves. In the first part of the book, based on the scientific theory of attachment, Lyudmila Petranovskaya easily and accessiblely talks about the role of parents on the path to adulthood: “How do dependence and helplessness turn into maturity?” and “How does our love and care, year after year, form in a child a secret support on which, like a pivot, his personality rests?” You will be able to see what really lies behind children's “whims”, “spoiledness”, “aggression”, “harmful character”. In the second part of the book, Lyudmila will talk about how to learn to navigate difficult situations, resolve conflicts and come out of them with dignity. them. You will be able to understand how to help your child so that he grows and develops without wasting energy fighting for your love.